Thursday, January 13, 2011

the ever changing wedding....

Well, this Christmas break several things about the wedding have changed...for the best. Yes, we are still getting married (hahaha) on April Fools Day (I am still pumped about the date). The location has changed. We are now getting married at Houston Station and not The Parthenon. At first I was panic stricken and of course I was driving on the interstate through Chattanooga, Tn when the wedding plans changed. Nate remained calm (of course) and talked me through it and we made it home safely and reserved a new venue for the wedding all in a matter of hours!

We went and met with the wedding coordinator at Houston Station at 10:00am on New Years Eve and were there for 2 hours. We paid the deposit and organized all of the table and chairs and bartenders, valet and pretty much every other detail of the wedding. Nate kept asking me when I was going to start crying because I was so happy (yes, I cry when I am happy - I didn't cry when I got pulled over for speeding, but the tears started flowing when he let me off with a warning - I didn't cry when I realized I left my purse with hundreds of dollars of cash and a brand new camera at a public park in the middle of the city, but the tears were flowing when we drove back and it was right where we left it.) Surprisingly, I did not cry as Nate and I strode happily out of the venue with every detail in order, but I think I was TOO overwhelmed to cry tears of joy!

Since New Years Eve everything wedding has been AMAZING!! I have NOT been stressed and I have been thinking of more and more crafty things that I can incorporate into decorations! It has been so fun and now I understand why people have told me to enjoy the planning process because it sure is fun!

Another happening with the wedding...

I BOUGHT A WEDDING DRESS!! And what is so exciting is that Nate knows NOTHING about it! Before November 14th, 2010 I was totally comfortable with seeing Nate before the wedding and taking pictures. I was SO comfortable with it that I was even going to let him go to the alterations place with me to decide how I should alter my great-grandmother's wedding dress to make it my own. Well, after seeing Daron's face when he saw Sarah for the first time I decided that I did NOT want to see Nate before the wedding!

Now, back to the dress. I went to the alterations place with my mom and my lil' sis' MOH to try on the dress after some of the alterations had been done. DISASTER. I think that I gained about 87 pounds when I put on the dress, the lace slip did not fit and I had to wear jeans, yes JEANS, under the dress, and the plunging "v" in the front was sooooo inappropriate that I could not take my and off of my chest!!!! Well, tears started flowing when my mom told me that I did not have to wear the dress. I wanted to wear the dress, almost more than anything. Lindsay stepped up and went into MOH mode. She was making all sorts of valuable suggestions and trying to make me feel better. We left the alteration place and were planning on going to David's Bridal again to try on the 2 dresses that I had loved so much. Lindsay called my older sister and told her to meet us at the house; she ran downstairs and warned my Dad that I was actually upset and was not pretending as I usually do. The 5 of us, my mom, dad, my 2 sisters, and myself drove to David's Bridal. The place was EMPTY! We had a consultant who was from Nashville, which made the experience even better! I tried on about 20 dresses and the decision was between 2. I am extremely happy with my choice and I stare at pictures of myself in the dress several times a day!

Wedding update #3: I WON A FREE PHOTOGRAPHY SESSION with a photographer that I LOVE! About 53 of my closest facebook friends "liked" her page and she drew my name out of a Halloween pumpkin! I was so excited and nervous about the drawing that I made myself sick (totally worth it). It was the first thing that I have EVER won!! Yay! Nate and I are going home this weekend for our FREE engagement session and for my second dress fitting! I am beyond thrilled!

Well, I have a lot more to post about recent happenings and events in my life, but this has turned into a novel so I am going to update in another post!

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